Well that's a loaded question!;)
I don't know what you were thinking but I meant, stoned with actual stones....
Ok so not many of us have been pummeled by a group of people with rocks in there hands, but how many of us have had words hurled at us, with the very real intent to cause damage. I'm not talking about constructive critisim, I'm talking words, statments, and attitudes that seriously kill our desire to live in an area...
Now I say this, by no means being innocent - infact I would go as far to say that none of us are innocent when it comes to hurling stones that kill something in someone...I think that's why the bible says that 'course jesting' is sin (that would be sarcasm in my book). It's almost always a backhanded slap in the face and a denegration of those beliefs or ideas someone else may have)
This is not to say that all our words need to be coated with sugar and spice and everything nice - sometimes whe share our heart, and it isn't always in agreement with others...that's not wrong and doing it in love can be tricky - But can be done. Certainly, speaking to someone we love, or have a responsibility towards about things that the Lord would not be pleased with, is a necessary thing that we are not to shy away from or avoid, but lovingly share. We need to remember too, that when we share those things, if the other person does not want to change or refuses to see truth, they will no doubt get offended regardless of how lovingly you may have expressed those truths...
Reading through Acts is an amazing journey. When Paul was stoned in the city of Lystra (Acts 14:19) it was for proclaiming to them the truth of Christ and hindering them from making the error of worship them as gods, giving them alot of notoriaty and fame... they corrected the people and they were stoned for it...Amazingly this did not kill Paul - after they all left sure that he was dead, he got up and walked BACK INTO THAT CITY....even though they left that city the next day and traveled further on their journey, on their return trip to home base, they went back to Lystra to encouraged the people that did come to believe in the message he had preached....
Are we that willing to put ourselves in harms way? Are we that devoted to the ones we love to make ourselves vulnerable even after we've been attacked with words and attitudes that could break down our resolve to share the love of Christ and the truth of His Message with others about life, death and eternity?
Usually after attacks I become reserved, unwilling to put my self in harms way again, I pull back not saying much to those people, whether friends, relatives, loved ones, church people...Yet I look at Paul and in 2 Cor 11:23-27 he talks about how much he went through to bring forth the truth of the Gospel of Jesus Christ, in his uncompromised and determined love for the people who were strangers to God's Love - imprisonments, beatings, near death, five times received 39 lashes, 3 times beaten with rods, stoned once, shipwrecked 3 times, dangers from sea, rivers, robbers, jews, gentiles, cities, country, false believers, sleepless nights, hunger, thirst, lacked food, clothing....
WOW! I have sooooooo not endured to that degree....I crack and fall prey to self pity and discouragements at the smallest things sometimes....
Even after that journey was over - he determined to go back to those very towns on his second journey to revisit, encourage and further evangelize those people....He was not going to be hindered by their hurling stones....He loved them and Christ too much to let that stop him!
I pray that as I grow, I am more willing to trust God with the end result of truth of the gospel and be willing to take the hits that may come with it....not that they won't hurt, but that they cannot kill the things that GOD has ordained!
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